Birth Parent Frequently Asked Questions
With the million questions you may have running through your mind right now, let us help answer a few of them. Have more? Reach out at any time to have your questions and worries answered.
Do i have to go to court?
Yes, in the state of Arizona, you are required to go to court to sign over your child birth right to the prospective Adoptive parents. But every state has different laws regarding the adoption process. For the majority of the states, you are not required to make an appearance in court. Contact us for more information.
Will the baby be in the Foster Care?
No. When the baby is born he or she is discharged from the hospital to the adoptive parents.
What happens when i go into Labor?
Our staff works with you in advance to make a hospital plan that best fits your needs. This may include who to contact when you go into labor and who you want at the hospital with you. Some women choose to have the adoptive parents support them in the hospital and some women prefer to spend alone time with the baby, or be with their friends and family. The decision is completely up to you.
What happens before my baby is born?
After you have chosen a family and you are sure that you want to move forward with them, you are considered “matched.” You will have made your adoption plan and, if you would like, will speak to the adoptive parents. You may also spend time with the adoptive parents and see them in person. You will also continue to seek prenatal care and your caseworker will help you make arrangements to make sure you are supported and ready for the delivery.
What if i have not been to the Doctors?
It’s OK. MyDream will provide you a doctor or healthcare facility that is confidential and free for you.
Are the Adoptive families screened? What do they have to do to adopt?
Yes! The adoptive parents go through a required process called a Home Study. This process is extremely thorough and includes background clearances, FBI and child abuse clearances, medical evaluations, home inspections, reference letters, financial reports and an interview process along with several other requirements that vary from state to state.
What if i do not have a Medical Insurance?
Not to worry, either we will help you receive state medical assistance or take care of all of your medical bills related to your pregnancy. Please contact MyDream Adoptions for assistance to see if you qualify for state medical insurance.
Can i talk to someone who has made an adoption plan?
Absolutely! Our Peer to Peer program was created for birth mothers to be able to connect with someone who has previously been through the adoption experience. It is nice to have another perspective from a person who has been through a similar situation. Please contact us for more information about this.
Do i have to do any paper works?
Yes, but very Vital. MyDream Adoptions will work with you to fill out the paperwork in the beginning that helps you develop your adoption plan. However, you will not sign any paperwork that concerns your rights until after the baby is born.
What if i do not live in Arizona?
MyDream Adoptions works with birth parents and adoptive parents all over the United States. We are here to support you and help you through the steps of adoption.
Can i meet the Adoptive family?
Absolutely! If you choose to have an open adoption you can speak with the adoptive parents in person, on the phone and/or by e-mail. The contact you have is up to you.
Will anyone find out about the Adoption?
No. All of our adoptions are confidential. If you choose not to share this information with your family and friends, that is your decision. You may share your adoption with whomever you are comfortable with, but that is your choice.
Does an Adoption cost me anything?
No. MyDream Adoptions’ services are provided to you at no cost.
Can My Dream help me move?
Yes, we can help you if you need to move. You can select where you would like to live and we will help you find something that is affordable and safe.
Can i make choice of the type of adoption i want?
Yes, your adoption plan is your choice! MyDream Adoptions offers open adoptions and closed adoptions. We want you to choose the adoption that best fits your needs. Open adoption is a form of adoption where the birth parents and adoptive families have an option for continuing contact after the birth of the baby. There are several different ways to remain in contact and it is up to the birth parents to decide what they are most comfortable with. This could include pictures and letter updates, phone and email contact, or visits a few times a year.
Closed Adoption is a form of adoption where an infant is adopted by another family and the record of the birth parents is kept sealed. There is no contact between the birth parents and adoptive parents.
You choose the level of openness that you are most comfortable with.